THE SECRET TO GET WOMEN APPROACHES YOU.
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omen approaches men every minutes of the day, but the men do not know the language.
One of my lady friend ask me to help her bring some grocery to her home. After arriving at her home we talk a little, then I say good by to her to return to my place. The woman look at me and say “James” When a woman make you an offer you must take it because you do not have what she is giving you so take it” I laugh and went home. But I keep thinking about what she said. Then I ask myself a question, when did this woman ever make me on offer?. The very time she make the comment, that was her way of making the offer. She invite me over to her house to do a job on her, not just to carry some grocery. But in my mind all I could see was the grocery. That was her way of approaching and making an offer. Four years roles by before I was able to figure it out. When I was doing tailoring I made a pair of pants for a lady, she went to try it on. Then started to yell that her under clothing got caught in the zipper. I have to get in there with my cutting device. Months later I found out that she planned it all along. She know what she was doing. She set out to show me what she got and she made a good job of it.
THINGS THAT TURN WOMEN OFF.
And there or other factor that turns the women off. Which we will be talking about before I finish with this book.
Men failed to realized that women want the same thing as them. Women are just as kinky as men. The only difference between men and women is that women get exited accordingly to the time in the month. While men get exited by what they saw. The secret to get women is. Men must go where women are spawning. For a fisherman to catch the kind of fish he want he must go to where that school of fish is spawning. When a man is too pushy or persistence he give the woman the idea that he is needy.
WOMEN SCORN NEEDY MEN.
Women resent needy men. Women can spot a needy men a mile away. A woman see needy men as hard up and one who will prey upon her sisters, cousin, women friend and daughters.
Dog tailing a woman only work in the man’s disadvantage. Once a woman get the idea that a man is needy she resented him, and put him in the trash pile part of her mind. Men think that we have to be tailing the woman to get some, and keep on telling her how nice she look. We think that women believe that. They heard it twenty time per day and get sick of it. Just walk past her and refuse to see her and she came over to find out why you did not say hello to her. “Push equal pull” The more you push up on woman is the more she move away, you stop pushing up on her and she start pushing up on you.
LOTS OF WOMEN SUFFER BETRAYAL.
Abuse by father, brother, cousin, and mother’s boy friend. My own sister was rape by Our mother’s boy friend, she never get over it until the day she dies. Women do not trust men who portrayed themselves as needy. Because of this betrayal.
WOMEN GROW UP THINKING EVERY MAN
WANT SOMETHING FROM THEM.
I was on the plane going to Jamaica from Orlando. A lady that suppose to sit beside me, came on after me. When she saw that she will have to be sitting beside a man she fix her face like she smell dodo. Women already predict that a man is going to jump on them and want something. You have to defeats a woman’s mentality. I never spoken one word to her through the entire trip.
Because I did not wish to upset her nor to make her think, that her first impression of me was correct. Neither, I am not ready to pick up a sexual harassment charge. I have a ministry, a family and job to protect and I am not going to give a woman the honor of putting a charge on me.
HUMBLED THE WOMAN.
Never make a woman think that her honey pot is better than your dip stick. If the way you act give her that impression she will never respect you. By our action and integrity we must humbled women, because they are prouder than men.
Deut. 22:29 (KJV) ----, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.
WOMEN DO NOT LIKE SMART MEN.
If a woman know that you know what she is up to, you will never get her. You have to be smart enough to make her think she can get over on you.
WOMEN DO NOT LIKE DRESSED UP MEN.
To be too dressy can make a man get rejected. Just look at them boys walking down the road with their pants down at the knees! Then look at the pretty lady that is walking along with them.
Men do not have a clue as to what women want. In addition, women worst and do not have a clue as to what men want. If you want women to approach you, you have to go where women are spawning.
IT IS NOT YOUR EFFORT THAT LAND THAT WOMAN.
A cat or a dog has to adopt the so-call owner, it is the same thing with a woman, she can like a man even though he is barefooted. But, the whole things is set up to look like it was your efforts.
No it was not you chasing her but she dragging you along.
HOW TO COMMUNICATE YOUR DESIRE TO A WOMAN.
When the time is right a man do not need to communicate a thing, a lady on one of my job called out to me. She put her hands by her mouth and say. “James do you want some (P????P?)” I have lady came up to me and ask. When are you going cut me in two? When are you going to take me out? If you have to keep asking you are barking up a dead tree. All a man need to do is show the woman that he desire her. He does not need to write it on the wall, nor use a loud speaker. A woman can feel it. A woman can feel the amount of desires a man has for her even though the man have never spoken a word. She will make you know if she want you.
We made mistakes because we start our lives wrong.
Long before you were born, before you were conceived in your mother’s womb, even before your parents meet. God know you and wrote your name in his book. In that same time, God also sent his son Jesus to die for your sins. If you accept this same Jesus as your savor and continue with him, you shall never be defeated. Your life will never be the same. Make the decision for Jesus today, join the million of saints who answer this calling and went on to victors living. Your birth was not an accident. You are not a freak of nature. You are not bad lucky, it is God that has his hand on you, calling you to come to him
YOU MUST COME AND TASTE.
Psalm 34:8 (NASB-U)O taste and see that the Lord is good;
How blessed is the man who takes refuge in Him!
Isaiah 7:11 (ASV)Ask thee a sign of Jehovah thy God; ask it either in the depth, or in the height above.
Isaiah 7:12 (ASV) But Ahaz said, I will not ask, neither will I tempt Jehovah.
Romans 3:23 (KJV)For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; Then you must know that God sent his son Jesus to die for your sins.
CHRIST DIED FOR US.
Romans 5:6 (KJV)For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.
Romans 5:7 (KJV)For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die.
Romans 5:8 (KJV)But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
1 Tim. 2:5-6 (KJV)For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus; [6] Who gave himself a ransom for all, to be testified in due time.
YOU MUST KNOW THAT YOU CANNOT SAVE YOURSELF.
Ephes. 2:8 (ASV)for by grace have ye been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God;
Ephes. 2:9 (ASV)not of works, that no man should glory.
2 Peter 3:18 (ASV)But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him be the glory both now and for ever. Amen.
YOU MUST BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A GOD.
Hebrews 11:6 (KJV) But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.
Rom 10:9 If you declare that Jesus is Lord, and believe that God brought him back to life, you will be saved.
Rom 10:10 By believing you receive God's approval, and by declaring your faith you are saved.
YOU MUST CALL TO GOD.
Romans 10:13 (KJV) For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
Jeremiah 33:3 (KJV) Call unto me, and I will answer thee, and shew thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not.
YOU MUST LOOK TO GOD.
Isaiah 45:22 (KJV) Look unto me, and be ye saved, all the ends of the earth: for I am God, and there is none else.
Ephes. 1:13 (KJV)
In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy Spirit of promise,
NO OTHER PERSON CAN SAVE YOU.
Acts 4:12 (KJV) Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE YOU.
Philip. 2:6-10 (KJV)
Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God: [7] But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men: [8] And being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross. [9] Wherefore God also hath highly exalted him, and given him a name which is above every name: [10] That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven, and things in earth, and things under the earth;
YOU MUST KNOW THAT GOD INVITES YOU TO COME.
Isaiah 1:18 (KJV)Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.
Rev. 22:17 (KJV)And the Spirit and the bride say, Come. And let him that heareth say, Come. And let him that is athirst come. And whosoever will, let him take the water of life freely.
GOD INVITES YOU TO CALL TO HIM
Acts 2:21 (KJV)And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved.
Romans 10:13 (KJV)For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
Ezekiel 33:11 (KJV) Say unto them, As I live, saith the Lord God, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live: turn ye, turn ye from your evil ways; for why will ye die, O house of Israel?
Now bow your head and pray this prayer.
Dear God, our heavenly father, I am a sinner and need to be save, would you save me this moment from all my sin? Save me now, because your son Jesus had died for my sin. Thank you for saving me and give me peace, in Jesus name.
From this day on ward you will begin to feel a flood of joy and peace full your heart and mind. You must confess Jesus to others with your mouth. Tell what great thing the lord had done for you. Romans 10:9 (Living) For if you tell others with your own mouth that Jesus Christ is your Lord and believe in your own heart that God has raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
Then you need to start reading the bible, start reading from St Matthew.
1 Peter 2:2 (Living) Now that you realize how kind the Lord has been to you, put away all evil, deception, envy, and fraud. Long to grow up into the fullness of your salvation; cry for this as a baby cries for his milk. 1 Tim. 4:13 (KJV) Till I come, give attendance to reading, to exhortation, to doctrine.
THE LORD WILL MAKE YOU HOLY IN HIS OWN TIME.
1 Peter 5:10 (KJV) But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, establish, strengthen, settle you.
OUR BODY WAS NOT REDEEM AT CONVERSION.
Romans 8:23 (GW) However, not only creation groans. We, who have the Spirit as the first of God's gifts, also groan inwardly. We groan as we eagerly wait for our adoption, the freeing of our bodies {from sin}.
Rom 8:21 that the creation itself also shall be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the liberty of the glory of the children of God.
Rom 8:22 For we know that the whole creation groaneth and travaileth in pain together until now.
Rom 8:23 And not only so, but ourselves also, who have the first-fruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for our adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.
OUR VILE BODY WILL BE CHANGE AT THE RETURN OF JESUS.
Philip. 3:20 (KJV)
For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ:
Philip. 3:21 (KJV)
Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.
HOW TO CONTINUE IN THE FAITH.
Hosea 6:3 Then shall we know, if we follow on to know the Lord: his going forth is prepared as the morning; and he shall come unto us as the rain, as the latter and former rain unto the earth.
The first thing you will need to know is this. Beware of people who come laying hands on you say they are filling you with the Holy Ghost. That is how people get possess with demonic spirits. God will give you every thing you need to fit you out for his service in his own times.
You do not need to push any thing nor to make any thing happen. Wait until God make it happen. Do not get too carry away into this charismatic stuff, I spent almost forty years in it, all those who try to fake it or pushed it got hurt.
You will need to read the book “War on the saints” By Jessie Penn-Lewis. The Christians literature Crusade, fort Washington, Pennsylvania 19034 U.S.A. ISBN 0-87508-958-4. Get this book before you start messing with Charismatic.
A NEW MIND-SET.
After the lord save a person there are some things that the person must do on their own. All the work is not just up to Jesus. You must developed a different mind set, from the one you have before you were converted. Not a holier that thou mind set but a new mind.
Eph 4:22 That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts;
Eph 4:23 And be renewed in the spirit of your mind;
Eph 4:24 And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness.
Eph 4:25 Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another.
GIVE YOURSELF AWAY TO THE THINGS OF GOD.
1Ti 4:13 Till I come, give attendance to reading, to exhortation, to doctrine.
1Ti 4:14 Neglect not the gift that is in thee, which was given thee by prophecy, with the laying on of the hands of the presbytery.
1Ti 4:15 Meditate upon these things; give thyself wholly to them; that thy profiting may appear to all.
1Ti 4:16 Take heed unto thyself, and unto the doctrine; continue in them: for in doing this thou shalt both save thyself, and them that hear thee.
Jer 29:13 The Message Bible.
"When you come looking for me, you'll find me. "Yes, when you get serious about finding me and want it more than anything else,
A window is opened, a bird eye view is given, a voice is heard, a man is enlightened a soul is saved.
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Bearer Of The Mind Sword.
The author of this article.
Rev. James McBean. Sr
Was born in Jamaica west Indies.
Bachelor In Theology.
Masters in Christians counseling.
