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WHAT TO DO WHEN THE WIFE IS USING SEX TO
MANIPULATE THE MARRIAGE.
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T his article is design to show the good reasons and the bad reasons, it also design to show the man how to turn the table in his favor. But, you must read the this whole article.
In my estimation, every human being dream of owning there own home. But, very few of them consider the responsibility of home ownership. For example. Let us look at just the up keeping of a home. If you refuse to cut the lawn, insect bread up, then rodent such as rats came to feed on the rodent, and the snakes came to feed on the rats. The same thing can be said of a marriage life.
Every woman dream of walking down the isle with a husband, then rode off into the sunset to live happily ever after. Few consider the responsibility of that marriage. Few consider the responsibility behind marriage life. Marriage life is hard work. It is like renting a room in your home to a dead stranger. He has to use the bath room and the kitchen. He has to go and come, and he cannot entertained his friends at the gate, it is not proper.
What does this have to do with wife using sex to manipulate the marriage? Everything? I spent almost forty years of my life in the Christian faith. As I study and counsel Christians daily I found an ice berg of problem hidden that many pastor never saw are even talk about it.
The smallest problem between the Christians woman and her husband, the wife stop hiving sex as a punishment. Do not deal with this problem on your own, the first thing to do is go to the pastor of your Church and make a complain. You need to drag this problem out into the open. In all my years only one man told me that his wife do not behave like that. This happen to be an Seven day Adventist Christians. I ask him to tel me the secret to his success. He said “ he does every thing his wife want him to do”
THE SCRIPTURES ENCOURAGE BELIEVERS TO MARY IF THEY CANNOT HAVE SELF CONTROL.
THE SCRIPTURES ESTABLISH THE RULE THAT MUST GOVERN THE MARRIAGE BED.
WHEN THESE RULES ARE BROKEN FOR SELFISH REASONS. THERE WILL BE NO WINNER BUT SATAN.
WHY WIVES SAY THEY REFUSES TO HAVE SEX.
COMMON PRACTICE IN CHRISTIAN CIRCLE.
Even in the time of the apostles, this was a common practice among Christians women.
THE REASON WHY CHRISTIANS WIVES CHOOSE THIS COURSE OF ACTION.
1 Tim. 3:12 (KJV) Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well.
Titus 1:6 (KJV) If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children not accused of riot or unruly.
The phrase “One wife” is use three times in the scriptures. One wife for bishop, one wife for deacon and any body that want to uses the office of deacon or bishop must considering one wife only. Bear in mind that during the time of the apostles polygamy was the thing of the day. The entire Christian religion adopt the one wife doctrines for every one who want to marry. The Christian wife know that she stand supreme in the man’s life and he is only legal if he get it from her. But, what about when she refuses him for selfish reason?
HOW TO TURN THE TABLE ON HER.
DEALING WITH A WOMAN.
You might say. “The marriage is going to broke up like that preacher” I want to tell you it is already broken. Every action will produce a counter reaction. In a situation like that no body win. It cannot continue like that for sure. What about your need? A woman will disregard a tool until she has another one. How is she getting her need met? Never give a woman the idea that you are sold out to sex. Many Christians men do not have the faintest idea that, that tongues talking Christians wives sometime have two and three men right there in the church. And another two on the job. Why do you thing they weep so much in church, And scream out? ((((( Come back soon for update)))))))))
We made mistakes because we start our lives wrong.
YOU MUST COME AND TASTE.
Isaiah 7:11 (ASV)Ask thee a sign of Jehovah thy God; ask it either in the depth, or in the height above. Isaiah 7:12 (ASV) But Ahaz said, I will not ask, neither will I tempt Jehovah.
Romans 3:23 (KJV)For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; Then you must know that God sent his son Jesus to die for your sins.
CHRIST DIED FOR US.
YOU MUST KNOW THAT YOU CANNOT SAVE YOURSELF.
YOU MUST BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A GOD.
Rom 10:9 If you declare that Jesus is Lord, and believe that God brought him back to life, you will be saved. Rom 10:10 By believing you receive God's approval, and by declaring your faith you are saved.
YOU MUST CALL TO GOD.
Jeremiah 33:3 (KJV) Call unto me, and I will answer thee, and shew thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not.
YOU MUST LOOK TO GOD.
Ephes. 1:13 (KJV) In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy Spirit of promise,
NO OTHER PERSON CAN SAVE YOU.
ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE YOU.
YOU MUST KNOW THAT GOD INVITES YOU TO COME.
Rev. 22:17 (KJV)And the Spirit and the bride say, Come. And let him that heareth say, Come. And let him that is athirst come. And whosoever will, let him take the water of life freely.
GOD INVITES YOU TO CALL TO HIM
Romans 10:13 (KJV)For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
Ezekiel 33:11 (KJV) Say unto them, As I live, saith the Lord God, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live: turn ye, turn ye from your evil ways; for why will ye die, O house of Israel?
Now bow your head and pray this prayer.
From this day on ward you will begin to feel a flood of joy and peace full your heart and mind. You must confess Jesus to others with your mouth. Tell what great thing the lord had done for you. Romans 10:9 (Living) For if you tell others with your own mouth that Jesus Christ is your Lord and believe in your own heart that God has raised him from the dead, you will be saved. Then you need to start reading the bible, start reading from St Matthew.
THE LORD WILL MAKE YOU HOLY IN HIS OWN TIME.
OUR BODY WAS NOT REDEEM AT CONVERSION.
Rom 8:21 that the creation itself also shall be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the liberty of the glory of the children of God. Rom 8:22 For we know that the whole creation groaneth and travaileth in pain together until now. Rom 8:23 And not only so, but ourselves also, who have the first-fruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for our adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.
OUR VILE BODY WILL BE CHANGE AT THE RETURN OF JESUS.
HOW TO CONTINUE IN THE FAITH.
The first thing you will need to know is this. Beware of people who come laying hands on you say they are filling you with the Holy Ghost. That is how people get possess with demonic spirits. God will give you every thing you need to fit you out for his service in his own times. You do not need to push any thing nor to make any thing happen. Wait until God make it happen. Do not get too carry away into this charismatic stuff, I spent almost forty years in it, all those who try to fake it or pushed it got hurt.
You will need to read the book “War on the saints” By Jessie Penn-Lewis. The Christians literature Crusade, fort Washington, Pennsylvania 19034 U.S.A. ISBN 0-87508-958-4. Get this book before you start messing with Charismatic.
A NEW MIND-SET.
Eph 4:22 That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts; Eph 4:23 And be renewed in the spirit of your mind; Eph 4:24 And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness. Eph 4:25 Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another.
GIVE YOURSELF AWAY TO THE THINGS OF GOD.
Jer 29:13 The Message Bible. "When you come looking for me, you'll find me. "Yes, when you get serious about finding me and want it more than anything else,
Bearer Of The Mind Sword.
The author of this article.
Rev. James McBean. Sr
Was born in Jamaica west Indies. Bachelor In Theology. Masters in Christians counseling.
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