WHERE DOES MEN HURT IN A RELATIONSHIP?
NOTICE.
A lots of women do not know that a man can be hurt, broken hearted and became bitter spirited just like women. A lot of women are totally unaware of what going on in a man’s mind. Some think that became a man turn heads in their direction that mean that the man is needy.
They failed to realize that sometime a woman resemble a man’s coworkers, cousin are somebody he know and that the reason why he turns head, and did not have sex on his mind like how the woman assumed.
TREAT HIM LIKE A FORGOTTEN DILDOS.
Men hurt in relationship when women uses them as dildos. He is her vibrator, she uses it , whips it off some kind of way and stick it under the pillow until one day next month when the feelings came again she come looking for it. She never think about his feelings, where does he go when his feeling comes?
1Co 7:1 The Message Bible. Now, getting down to the questions you asked in your letter to me. First, Is it a good thing to have sexual relations? 1Co 7:2 Certainly--but only within a certain context. It's good for a man to have a wife, and for a woman to have a husband. Sexual drives are strong, but marriage is strong enough to contain them and provide for a balanced and fulfilling sexual life in a world of sexual disorder. 1Co 7:3 The marriage bed must be a place of mutuality--the husband seeking to satisfy his wife, the wife seeking to satisfy her husband. 1Co 7:4 Marriage is not a place to "stand up for your rights." Marriage is a decision to serve the other, whether in bed or out. 1Co 7:5 Abstaining from sex is permissible for a period of time if you both agree to it, and if it's for the purposes of prayer and fasting--but only for such times. Then come back together again. Satan has an ingenious way of tempting us when we least expect it.
MEN HURT WHEN THEY ARE SEEN AS A SEXUAL PREDATOR.
On one of my job, one nurse hugged a male nurse. Her breasts were all up in his face. The next day he feel for a hug and hugged her, she slap a sexual harassment charge on him, he got fired from the job. She must be able to hugged him when she want one, but the man on the other hand must not feel for an hug until the woman want one.
FAILING TO SEE THAT HE IS GOING THROUGH HARD TIMES.
2Ti 2:3 Therefore endure hardness, as a good soldier of Jesus Christ.
During hard times people must learn to cut back on some thing and make the most important things stand. You should not need to fall into depression because you have to turn off your cables. You might have to go back to dial up instead of cable. You might have to cut out going to the movies, but in hard time you just have to find away to live, life goes on. Do not start blaming each other and cursing and fighting. Ride it out, you have to ride out hard time. That is why the scriptures say we are to “Endure” It.
Some people brought hard times on themselves. My daughter car is spitting oil, the mechanic cannot find where the oil is coming from. They charge $400 to do a big job. I jacked the car up, then turn it on, to put the engin under pressure. I saw the oil coming from the oil sending unit. I cause a bout $7, fifteen minuets the thing was all fix. Another man pay $1000 and the problem was just the oil sending unit. At least look, do a visual check before calling in the experts.
LISTENING TO OTHER WOMEN ON THE JOB AND CAME HOME ANGRY.
Sirach 42:13. For just as moths comes from garments, so harm to women comes from women. By “The New American Bible. Saint Joseph Edition.”
Sirach 37:7. Every counselor points out a way, but some counsel ways of their own; be on the alert when one proffers advice, find out first of all what he wants. For he may be thinking of himself alone; why should the profit fall to him?
By “The New American Bible. Saint Joseph Edition.”
A MAN HURT WHEN THE WOMAN CANNOT CREDIT HIM FOR ANY THING.
MEN HURT WHEN THE WOMAN HE IS LIVING WITH ARE THE ONE SPREADING RUMORS ABOUT HIM.
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THE LAW OF SOWING AND REAPING.
Proverbs 19:17 (Living) When you help the poor you are lending to the Lord--and he pays wonderful interest on your loan!
Galatians 6:7 (KJV) Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.
Job 42:10 And the LORD turned the captivity of Job, when he prayed for his friends: also the LORD gave Job twice as much as he had before.
TO RECEIVE FORGIVNESS YOU MUST BE WILLING TO GIVE IT.
TO RECEIVE FINANCIAL PROSPERITY YOU MUST BE WILLING TO PLANT SEED OF FINANCE INTO OTHER PEOPLE MINISTRY.
JOB WAS DELIVERED AFTER HE PRAYED FOR HIS FRIENDS.
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Proverbs 3:6 in all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
Psalm 34:8 (NASB-U) O taste and see that the Lord is good; How blessed is the man who takes refuge in Him!
HOW TO BECOME A CHRISTIAN.
Isaiah 7:11 (ASV) Ask thee a sign of Jehovah thy God; ask it either in the depth, or in the height above. Isaiah 7:12 (ASV) But Ahaz said, I will not ask, neither will I tempt Jehovah.
Ezekiel 18:32 (ASV) For I have no pleasure in the death of him that dieth, saith the Lord Jehovah: wherefore turn yourselves, and live.
First you must recognize that you are a sinner and need God mercy.
1 Peter 2:24 (Living) He personally carried the load of our sins in his own body when he died on the cross so that we can be finished with sin and live a good life from now on. For his wounds have healed ours!
YOU MUST KNOW THAT YOU CANNOT SAVE YOURSELF.
2 Peter 3:18 (ASV) But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him be the glory both now and for ever. Amen.
Zech. 4:7 (KJV) Who art thou, O great mountain? before Zerubbabel thou shalt become a plain: and he shall bring forth the headstone thereof with shoutings, crying, Grace, grace unto it.
Eph 2:8 The Message Bible” “Saving is all his idea, and all his work. All we do is trust him enough to let him do it. It's God's gift from start to finish! Eph 2:9 We don't play the major role. If we did, we'd probably go around bragging that we'd done the whole thing!” There nothing you could do to save yourself , the only thing you could do is bowed your head and ask God to save you.
You must believe that there is a God.
No other person can save you except Jesus.
Acts 4:12 (Living) There is salvation in no one else! Under all heaven there is no other name for men to call upon to save them."
Then you must know that God invites you to come to him.
Do not wait until tomorrow to get save.
2Co 6:2 The Message Bible. “God reminds us, I heard your call in the nick of time; The day you needed me, I was there to help. Well, now is the right time to listen, the day to be helped.”
Delay not your conversion to the lord, put it not off from day to day. Remember that tomorrow is promise to no man. Accept the lord, go home and continue with your life, if the lord.. If the lord saves you in bad life style, he has some plan up his sleeve how to get you out of it, give him time to work out his salvation in your life.
WHOSEOEVER SHALL CALL.
Romans 10:13 (KJV) For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
Ezekiel 33:11 (KJV) Say unto them, As I live, saith the Lord God, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live: turn ye, turn ye from your evil ways; for why will ye die, O house of Israel?
Now bow your head and pray this prayer.
From this day onward you will begin to feel a flood of joy and peace full your heart and mind. You must confess Jesus to others with your mouth. Tell what great thing the lord had done for you. Romans 10:9 (Living) For if you tell others with your own mouth that Jesus Christ is your Lord and believe in your own heart that God has raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
Then you need to start reading the bible, start reading from St Mathew.
THE LORD WILL MAKE YOU HOLY IN HIS OWN TIME.
OUR BODY WAS NOT REEDEM AT CONVERSION.
Rom 8:21 that the creation itself also shall be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the liberty of the glory of the children of God. Rom 8:22 For we know that the whole creation groaneth and travaileth in pain together until now. Rom 8:23 And not only so, but ourselves also, who have the first-fruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for our adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.
THE SINS OF THE BODY WILL NOT BE CONQUERED LITERALY BY ALL SAINTS WHILE LIVING ON EARTH.
When the Lord redeemed us our body was not redeem, it was our spirit and soul. The changes took place in our spirit man. Not the body. The body will still continue to sin. If the believer do not know this they will become worried as to why am I still lusting? And became eaten up with guilt to the point where they experience no peace and joy.
Even though our body were not redeem, we who wanting to live up to certain standard, to please society, must bring our body into subjection, even thou we do not do that to buy salvation. But to prevent Satan from capitalized on it. But to bring this body into subjection take time. We saw belivers at the judgment seat of Christ in heaven being judge for the deeds of the body.
1 Cor. 9:27 (NASB-U)but I discipline my body and make it my slave, so that, after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified.
2 Cor. 2:11 (NASB-U) so that no advantage would be taken of us by Satan, for we are not ignorant of his schemes.
Romans 12:1 (GW)Brothers and sisters, in view of all we have just shared about God's compassion, I encourage you to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, dedicated to God and pleasing to him. This kind of worship is appropriate for you.
2 Cor. 12:7 (NASB-U)Because of the surpassing greatness of the revelations, for this reason, to keep me from exalting myself, there was given me a thorn in the flesh, a messenger of Satan to torment me—to keep me from exalting myself!
SOME THING YOU OVERCAME IT BY IMPUTED GRACE.
“I saw a river of blood, flows from Calvary Mountain, I am in it and your are in it, and I am clean, clean” By Smith Wiggle worth.
We can sing with the song writer" I rise walk in heaven’s own light above the world and sin with heart made pure and garments white, and Christ en-throned with in. The cleansing stream I see I see I plunge, and O It cleans-eth me. O praise the Lord, it cleans-eth me, it cleans-eth me yes, cleans-eth me."
HOW TO CONTINUE IN THE FAITH.
The first thing you will need to know is this. Beware of people who come laying hands on you say they are filling you with the Holy Ghost. That is how people get possess with demonic spirits. God will give you every thing you need to fit you out for his service in his own times. You do not need to push any thing nor to make any thing happen. Wait until God make it happen.
Do not put any pressure upon your selves to live more holy than thou, as you go on from day to day, the lord will work out his life and will in you. Do not let other over holy Christians set holy goal for you, it will strangulate you into discourage. The lord asks you to taste and see. Taste mean to take a small portion and feed upon it in your own time and style, and when you approved you take more.
FIND SINCARE CHRISTIANS TO BE YOUR FRIEND, NOT NECESSARILY THE ONES THAT HAS A LOT OF DO’S AND DONT’S.
Keep company with wayfaring men.
TWELVE PILLARS OF THE CHRISTIAN LIFE.
Daily praying, alms giving, confession of sins, fasting and prayer, daily Bible reading and mediating on the written word, assembling of yourself with other believers, confessing your faith to others, or faith sharing, supporting the ministry with your offerings and tithes, love the brotherhood, perfecting holiness, LOVE THE LORD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, and learning to listen to the leading voice of the Holy Spirit. This is not a twelve commandment, nor a way to get nor keep salvation, but if you master these it will fill your life with daily power, new vision and fresh revelation.
Micah 6:8 He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?
John 16:13 Howbeit when he, the Spirit of truth, is come, he will guide you into all truth: for he shall not speak of himself; but whatsoever he shall hear, that shall he speak: and he will shew you things to come.
As you and I walk with the lord from day to day we will just walk right into his will, as we yield to his Holy Spirit. His will, will be unfolded to us.
Titus 3:2-AV To speak evil of no man, to be no brawlers, [but] gentle, shewing all meekness unto all men.
1 Thessalonians 4:11-AV And that ye study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you;
Romans 13:8-AV Owe no man any thing, but to love one another: for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law.
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