MEN ALWAYS EVENTUALLY WALK OUT ON A SWAMP RELATIONSHIP. MEN ALWAYS EVENTUALLY WALK OUT ON A SWAMP RELATIONSHIP.

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MEN ALWAYS WALK OUT ON A SWAMP RELATIONSHIP.

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I n ancient as well as modern warfare, and enemy cannot bring down an opponent, until he can find a weakness to capitalize on. However, sometime what we think is our greatest strength, could turnout to be our greatest weakness. One has to have all the facts on the table before them and are ready to change their original thinking and attitudes to be safe. And this will have to be done periodically.

A swamp relationship is one that one of the mate is doing every thing, doing all the work and getting nothing back in returns. Every thing go into the swamp and nothing came out but flies and fowl smell.

Setting up a working relationship is no different, it must be two sided. Each party must make sure the other party is contributing something to it. It might look smart to the person who is getting all the benefits, but how long does he she think it will be before the other person got wise up? And when they finally walk out it hurt, because he she who was getting every thing is now getting nothing.

In some ladies perceptions, the man must buy the valentines day card. He must buy the flowers. He must invites her out. He must indicate sex. He must pay most or all the bills. He must call her the day after the love making. He must be the one to listen to all the complains. He must buy all the gifts. He must ask her out for lunch. Every thing going to her and nothing coming back to him. That is what we call a swamp relationship. Men do not like this kind of relationship because this kind is too much a hard work. With no returns dividends. One lady wrote." A man will walk out no matter what you do" who ever walk away leave a well paying job? Who ever abandon a good doctor, a good lawyer, a good restaurant, a good church or a good friend? No! people find it hard to leave where they are happy and are well care for. However, this is not only a woman's problem, a few good men also take up this mentality, but we should learn to comparmise.

Every body comes to a relationship to get, the man is there because he wanted something, the woman is there because she wanted something. People will not stay if he she is doing all the giving, the other person who is doing all the receiving is quickly seen a liability, and it will not be long before the person dump he she off.

WOMEN MISTAKES WHEN DEALING WITH MEN.

A lot of women mistakenly treat men like a vibrator. Use him wash him off and hide him under some billow. His personal need never came into the woman mind. As soon as a man find out that he is only a human vibrator, or a juke box and is just there to help the woman broke her knuckle. The men always try to find a way out of woman life.

“Men do not made of stone” Men are not vibrators, they have needs just like women. A man can be hurt and hart broken just like a woman, infect men respond the way they do because they too has been hurt. Sometime women boast how they put the condom on the man then slip out through the back door and left with his money. Women must remember that men are somebody’s child just like them.

Luke 6:31 (NASB-U) "Treat others the same way you want them to treat you.

Luk 6:31 The Message Bible "Here is a simple rule of thumb for behavior: Ask yourself what you want people to do for you; then grab the initiative and do it for them!

Rules of thumb is, make yourself compatible with your mate, have set time for them, return the favors they grant you in some ways compatible to them. Because if you do not, you will run out of people and end up lonely and cold.

WATCH YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE.

If you were driving in the same car with your mate, it is important to know that, men find it harassing when the women monitor every where he looks and who he look at, then take it personally and scold him for it.

BE A LADY WHEN YOU ARE AROUND MEN.

Men do not respect women who made big belching, and big loud passing gases. Even after being married to her, men resent that. Every body has to make gas, but we do not need to wake up the dead. Nothing beat politeness, and people are bent to accidently behave abroad what they practice at home.

YOU CANNOT BE VOID OF EMPATHY AND EXPECT TO KEEP PEOPLE

Not even our pets will stay with us of we refuses to feed them. Our children will go out into the street and beg if they are hungry. If you and I do not treat people good they will leave us. This is a kingdom principle. You have to tell people you love them or act in a way that they a know. We cannot treat people bad and expect them to look behind that bad treatment and see love, it does not work like that. They will try to become your friend to get close enough to hurt you.

Proverbs 18:24 (KJV) A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.

Let us face the fact, no matter how much education we had on a subject we can go out there and made the worst mistakes of our life, that cause us dearly. Only Jesus Christ can help us with our decision-making.

Proverbs 3:6 in all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

Psalm 34:8 (NASB-U) O taste and see that the Lord is good; How blessed is the man who takes refuge in Him!

HOW TO BECOME A CHRISTIAN.

Many people went to court each year and received a terrible sentences from the judge, and because they have no knowledge, they did not know that they could have ask the court for mercy or leniency, and end up knocking off a few years just by asking, it is the privilege of every citizen. Many people died and went to hell and never have the nerve to even ask God for mercy. Is there mercy for a hopeless sinner who has hurt all mankind? Yes!

Isaiah 7:11 (ASV) Ask thee a sign of Jehovah thy God; ask it either in the depth, or in the height above. Isaiah 7:12 (ASV) But Ahaz said, I will not ask, neither will I tempt Jehovah.

Ezekiel 18:32 (ASV) For I have no pleasure in the death of him that dieth, saith the Lord Jehovah: wherefore turn yourselves, and live.

First you must recognize that you are a sinner and need God mercy.

Romans 3:23 (KJV) For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; Then you must know that God sent his son Jesus to die for your sins.

1 Peter 2:24 (Living) He personally carried the load of our sins in his own body when he died on the cross so that we can be finished with sin and live a good life from now on. For his wounds have healed ours!

YOU MUST KNOW THAT YOU CANNOT SAVE YOURSELF.

Ephes. 2:8 (ASV) for by grace have ye been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God; Ephes. 2:9 (ASV) not of works, that no man should glory.

2 Peter 3:18 (ASV) But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. To him be the glory both now and for ever. Amen.

Zech. 4:7 (KJV) Who art thou, O great mountain? before Zerubbabel thou shalt become a plain: and he shall bring forth the headstone thereof with shoutings, crying, Grace, grace unto it.

Eph 2:8 The Message Bible” “Saving is all his idea, and all his work. All we do is trust him enough to let him do it. It's God's gift from start to finish! Eph 2:9 We don't play the major role. If we did, we'd probably go around bragging that we'd done the whole thing!” There nothing you could do to save yourself , the only thing you could do is bowed your head and ask God to save you.

You must believe that there is a God.

Hebrews 11:6 (Living) You can never please God without faith, without depending on him. Anyone who wants to come to God must believe that there is a God and that he rewards those who sincerely look for him.

No other person can save you except Jesus.

Acts 4:12 (KJV) Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.

Acts 4:12 (Living) There is salvation in no one else! Under all heaven there is no other name for men to call upon to save them."

Then you must know that God invites you to come to him.

Isaiah 1:18 (Living) "Come, let's talk this over!" says the Lord; "no matter how deep the stain of your sins, I can take it out and make you as clean as freshly fallen snow. Even if you are stained as red as crimson, I can make you white as wool!

Do not wait until tomorrow to get save.

2Co 6:2 (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is] the accepted time; behold, now {is] the day of salvation.)

2Co 6:2 The Message Bible. “God reminds us, I heard your call in the nick of time; The day you needed me, I was there to help. Well, now is the right time to listen, the day to be helped.”

Delay not your conversion to the lord, put it not off from day to day. Remember that tomorrow is promise to no man. Accept the lord, go home and continue with your life, if the lord.. If the lord saves you in bad life style, he has some plan up his sleeve how to get you out of it, give him time to work out his salvation in your life.

WHOSEOEVER SHALL CALL.

Acts 2:21 (KJV) And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved.

Romans 10:13 (KJV) For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.

Ezekiel 33:11 (KJV) Say unto them, As I live, saith the Lord God, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live: turn ye, turn ye from your evil ways; for why will ye die, O house of Israel?

Now bow your head and pray this prayer.

Dear God, our heavenly father, I am a sinner and need to be save, would you save me this moment from all my sin? Save me now, because your son Jesus had died for my sin. Thank you for saving me and give me peace, in Jesus name.

From this day onward you will begin to feel a flood of joy and peace full your heart and mind. You must confess Jesus to others with your mouth. Tell what great thing the lord had done for you. Romans 10:9 (Living) For if you tell others with your own mouth that Jesus Christ is your Lord and believe in your own heart that God has raised him from the dead, you will be saved.

Then you need to start reading the bible, start reading from St Mathew.

1 Peter 2:2 (Living) Now that you realize how kind the Lord has been to you, put away all evil, deception, envy, and fraud. Long to grow up into the fullness of your salvation; cry for this as a baby cries for his milk. 1 Tim. 4:13 (KJV) Till I come, give attendance to reading, to exhortation, to doctrine.

THE LORD WILL MAKE YOU HOLY IN HIS OWN TIME.

1 Peter 5:10 (KJV) But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stablish, strengthen, settle you.

OUR BODY WAS NOT REEDEM AT CONVERSION.

Romans 8:23 (GW) However, not only creation groans. We, who have the Spirit as the first of God's gifts, also groan inwardly. We groan as we eagerly wait for our adoption, the freeing of our bodies {from sin}.

Rom 8:21 that the creation itself also shall be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the liberty of the glory of the children of God. Rom 8:22 For we know that the whole creation groaneth and travaileth in pain together until now. Rom 8:23 And not only so, but ourselves also, who have the first-fruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for our adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.

THE SINS OF THE BODY WILL NOT BE CONQUERED LITERALY BY ALL SAINTS WHILE LIVING ON EARTH.

2 Cor. 5:10 (NASB-U) For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may be recompensed for his deeds in the body, according to what he has done, whether good or bad.

When the Lord redeemed us our body was not redeem, it was our spirit and soul. The changes took place in our spirit man. Not the body. The body will still continue to sin. If the believer do not know this they will become worried as to why am I still lusting? And became eaten up with guilt to the point where they experience no peace and joy.

Even though our body were not redeem, we who wanting to live up to certain standard, to please society, must bring our body into subjection, even thou we do not do that to buy salvation. But to prevent Satan from capitalized on it. But to bring this body into subjection take time. We saw belivers at the judgment seat of Christ in heaven being judge for the deeds of the body.

1 Cor. 9:27 (NASB-U)but I discipline my body and make it my slave, so that, after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified.

2 Cor. 2:11 (NASB-U) so that no advantage would be taken of us by Satan, for we are not ignorant of his schemes.

Romans 12:1 (GW)Brothers and sisters, in view of all we have just shared about God's compassion, I encourage you to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, dedicated to God and pleasing to him. This kind of worship is appropriate for you.

2 Cor. 12:7 (NASB-U)Because of the surpassing greatness of the revelations, for this reason, to keep me from exalting myself, there was given me a thorn in the flesh, a messenger of Satan to torment me—to keep me from exalting myself!

SOME THING YOU OVERCAME IT BY IMPUTED GRACE.

2 Cor. 12:8 (NASB-U)Concerning this I implored the Lord three times that it might leave me. 2 Cor. 12:9 (NASB-U) And He has said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness." Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me.

“I saw a river of blood, flows from Calvary Mountain, I am in it and your are in it, and I am clean, clean” By Smith Wiggle worth.

We can sing with the song writer" I rise walk in heaven’s own light above the world and sin with heart made pure and garments white, and Christ en-throned with in. The cleansing stream I see I see I plunge, and O It cleans-eth me. O praise the Lord, it cleans-eth me, it cleans-eth me yes, cleans-eth me."

HOW TO CONTINUE IN THE FAITH.

Hosea 6:3 Then shall we know, if we follow on to know the Lord: his going forth is prepared as the morning; and he shall come unto us as the rain, as the latter and former rain unto the earth.

The first thing you will need to know is this. Beware of people who come laying hands on you say they are filling you with the Holy Ghost. That is how people get possess with demonic spirits. God will give you every thing you need to fit you out for his service in his own times. You do not need to push any thing nor to make any thing happen. Wait until God make it happen.

A NEW MIND-SET.

After the lord save a person there are some things that the person must do on their own. All the work is not just up to Jesus. You must developed a different mind set, from the one you have before you were converted. Not a holier that thou mind set but a new mind.

Eph 4:22 That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts; Eph 4:23 And be renewed in the spirit of your mind; Eph 4:24 And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness. Eph 4:25 Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another.

GIVE YOURSELF AWAY TO THE THINGS OF GOD.

1Ti 4:13 Till I come, give attendance to reading, to exhortation, to doctrine. 1Ti 4:14 Neglect not the gift that is in thee, which was given thee by prophecy, with the laying on of the hands of the presbytery. 1Ti 4:15 Meditate upon these things; give thyself wholly to them; that thy profiting may appear to all. 1Ti 4:16 Take heed unto thyself, and unto the doctrine; continue in them: for in doing this thou shalt both save thyself, and them that hear thee.

Jer 29:13 The Message Bible. "When you come looking for me, you'll find me. "Yes, when you get serious about finding me and want it more than anything else,

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THE LAW OF SOWING AND REAPING.

Do you want God to throw money at you? Help you out of tuff places? Restore your health and give you new friends. Well learn to lend to God.

Proverbs 19:17 (Living) When you help the poor you are lending to the Lord--and he pays wonderful interest on your loan!

Galatians 6:7 (KJV) Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.

Job 42:10 And the LORD turned the captivity of Job, when he prayed for his friends: also the LORD gave Job twice as much as he had before.

TO RECEIVE FORGIVNESS YOU MUST BE WILLING TO GIVE IT.

Mark 11:26 (KJV) But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses.

TO RECEIVE FINANCIAL PROSPERITY YOU MUST BE WILLING TO PLANT SEED OF FINANCE INTO OTHER PEOPLE MINISTRY.

2Co 9:7 Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or of necessity: for God loveth a cheerful giver.

JOB WAS DELIVERED AFTER HE PRAYED FOR HIS FRIENDS.

Job 42:10 After Job had interceded for his friends, GOD restored his fortune--and then doubled it! Job 42:11 All his brothers and sisters and friends came to his house and celebrated. They told him how sorry they were, and consoled him for all the trouble GOD had brought him. Each of them brought generous housewarming gifts.

A window is opened, a bird eye view is given, a voice is heard, a man is enlightened a soul is saved.

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