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WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU MATE DO NOT WANT SEX.
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I n every relationship, one of the two is always the one to enunciate sex. We call this one the main aggressor in the relationship. Sometime the aggressiveness, cause the other mate to think that his or her mate is sold out to sex. Therefore, he or she begin to use it as a tool of manipulation. On the other hand, to control the other. Therefore, their refusal is on purpose. Since it is now being use on purpose, as a tool how does one deal with it?
If you suspected that, the person lack of urges could be from physical or emotional causes, try getting them help. However, if the person is behaving like that on purpose because there are animosity. This is clear evidence that the person do not want the relationship any more. !
HOW TO TURN THE TABLE TO YOUR ADVANTAGE.
If you suspected that, your mate is refusing you on purpose, and is using that to control you. Let he or she know that you are available when he or she is ready. Then stop making advance to them. If a person give you the indication that they want to be left alone. They do not want to be bothered, do not bother them, and leave them alone. Above all, stop getting into a verbal fight and start planning your leaving, if no changes are seen in sight. In most cases the mate find somebody better, and just taking you along for the ride. Where does he or she getting their needs met? Where women are concern they might not have another man, it could be another woman telling her what to do.
A JAMAICAN WOMAN MISTAKE.
ANOTHER WOMAN MAKES THE SAME MISTAKE.
PEOPLE NEED TO GROW UP.
1 Cor. 7:1-5 (NASB-U) Now concerning the things about which you wrote, it is good for a man not to touch a woman. [2] But because of immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband. [3] The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. [4] The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; and likewise also the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. [5] Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
A Christian wife can hold out an her husband for six months defrauding him with ease, some can go on even longer. Some Christians husband leave the church in the process and some became Muslim where they can have four wives to choose from and still belong to a community.
We made mistakes because we start our lives wrong.
YOU MUST COME AND TASTE.
Isaiah 7:11 (ASV)Ask thee a sign of Jehovah thy God; ask it either in the depth, or in the height above. Isaiah 7:12 (ASV) But Ahaz said, I will not ask, neither will I tempt Jehovah.
Romans 3:23 (KJV)For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; Then you must know that God sent his son Jesus to die for your sins.
CHRIST DIED FOR US.
YOU MUST KNOW THAT YOU CANNOT SAVE YOURSELF.
YOU MUST BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A GOD.
Rom 10:9 If you declare that Jesus is Lord, and believe that God brought him back to life, you will be saved. Rom 10:10 By believing you receive God's approval, and by declaring your faith you are saved.
YOU MUST CALL TO GOD.
Jeremiah 33:3 (KJV) Call unto me, and I will answer thee, and shew thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not.
YOU MUST LOOK TO GOD.
Ephes. 1:13 (KJV) In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy Spirit of promise,
NO OTHER PERSON CAN SAVE YOU.
ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE YOU.
YOU MUST KNOW THAT GOD INVITES YOU TO COME.
Rev. 22:17 (KJV)And the Spirit and the bride say, Come. And let him that heareth say, Come. And let him that is athirst come. And whosoever will, let him take the water of life freely.
GOD INVITES YOU TO CALL TO HIM
Romans 10:13 (KJV)For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
Ezekiel 33:11 (KJV) Say unto them, As I live, saith the Lord God, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live: turn ye, turn ye from your evil ways; for why will ye die, O house of Israel?
Now bow your head and pray this prayer.
From this day on ward you will begin to feel a flood of joy and peace full your heart and mind. You must confess Jesus to others with your mouth. Tell what great thing the lord had done for you. Romans 10:9 (Living) For if you tell others with your own mouth that Jesus Christ is your Lord and believe in your own heart that God has raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
Then you need to start reading the bible, start reading from St Matthew.
THE LORD WILL MAKE YOU HOLY IN HIS OWN TIME.
OUR BODY WAS NOT REDEEM AT CONVERSION.
Rom 8:21 that the creation itself also shall be delivered from the bondage of corruption into the liberty of the glory of the children of God. Rom 8:22 For we know that the whole creation groaneth and travaileth in pain together until now. Rom 8:23 And not only so, but ourselves also, who have the first-fruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for our adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.
OUR VILE BODY WILL BE CHANGE AT THE RETURN OF JESUS.
HOW TO CONTINUE IN THE FAITH.
The first thing you will need to know is this. Beware of people who come laying hands on you say they are filling you with the Holy Ghost. That is how people get possess with demonic spirits. God will give you every thing you need to fit you out for his service in his own times. You do not need to push any thing nor to make any thing happen. Wait until God make it happen. Do not get too carry away into this charismatic stuff, I spent almost forty years in it, all those who try to fake it or pushed it got hurt.
You will need to read the book “War on the saints” By Jessie Penn-Lewis. The Christians literature Crusade, fort Washington, Pennsylvania 19034 U.S.A. ISBN 0-87508-958-4. Get this book before you start messing with Charismatic.
A NEW MIND-SET.
Eph 4:22 That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts; Eph 4:23 And be renewed in the spirit of your mind; Eph 4:24 And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness. Eph 4:25 Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another.
GIVE YOURSELF AWAY TO THE THINGS OF GOD.
Jer 29:13 The Message Bible. "When you come looking for me, you'll find me. "Yes, when you get serious about finding me and want it more than anything else,
Bearer Of The Mind Sword.
The author of this article.
Rev. James McBean. Sr
Was born in Jamaica west Indies. Bachelor In Theology. Masters in Christians counseling.
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